Saturday, December 20, 2014

Swaach bharat VS swaach mentality

:( with so many rapes in India and men prowling at women we need to keep our thoughts clean rather then literally cleaning India .. we need to keep fear of law ,hard laws ,  capital punishments on Rape cases..
Don't not dare to touch otherwise the consequences can be brutal should be a clear  message
I mean whats wrong in india..
Delhi seems to be hitting the crime list .. broad daylight women raped .. ludhiana a minor raped and burnt .. where has humanity gone? so much filth in mind ,you can come to know from eve-teasing  this was 10 yrs back I m talking But now the scene is different goons are everywhere..
Uber case has again shocked the whole country .. no security for women.. we judge a women by clothes can we judge a rapist from his looks? I mean its horrifying .. devastating..  shame on country ..
couple of yrs back I had written a blog on this how in india things are getting bad as my aunt from New York was bruised by a chain snatcher..she never expected landing in emergency instead of going to her house .. and to this somebody really got offended and said India is the SAFEST place on earth as compared to US ..well I had nothing to debate or say cause I m an India first and US citizen later ..
The number of rape cases reported in US are much more and taken care as compared to India..many cases are not reported in india and some criminals are actually let free on bribe.. thats the saddest part..

Swaach bharat can come later right now the need is fear of law .. swaach mentality and that cannot be done in a day .. we need to raise our kids where there is respect for gender not only females  but males too .. this is a long process but FEAR of law and hard laws is one way to keep this at bay ..if found guilty the consequences should prove fatal.. 
I literally get very disturbed every morning reading news about women getting raped or burnt ..I mean after the brave heart case r..its been two yrs ..what did we do ?? wht strong steps are taken? 
poor females are harassed ,teased , stared .. even molested in broad day light .. the rotak story is not old where gurls had to take care of them self in bus and passenger were audience body had guts to help girls.
India seems to be a place where Sex seems to be suppressed  .. I mean why guys are so desperate?
there are lot of brothels you can get a favor .. ..why not get your frustration out .. 
Born and lived in india for almost twenty year and seen most of india I have myself gone through many embarrassing cases as kid ..where I had seen men flashing and I had to turn my face other cases where someone try to touch in bus I had escaped ..then seen men staring "which is very very common"  passing lewd remarks even to the extent torching the bust in crowed places but always escaped ..where can one go to report? wht proof we can give? we have to be safe .. thats what always my mom said at home try to be with people don't wear skimpy clothes try to be at home on time .. and be smart traveller dont sit or get empty bus .. 
my experiences taught me so much by the time I reached university and studying in Hostel at punjab university Chandigarh india.. kept myself safe and distance for guys .. 

Getting married and coming to USA ..i was always covered mentality was no shorts no skirts..jus tees and jeans or Capri but with time I learnt its safe and we are part of community nobody can dare as laws are very hard ..
I have been shopping on thanks giving till 2 am coming home at 4 am .. me and my sister but its safe 
police is around every corner .. security is on high alert for public india I had seen this kind of security given to politicians only .. which is very sad.

I make a trip to water park every year in summer ..wearing my swimming suit and swimming all day .. moving around the pool area .. but feeling safe .. no body staring or passing remarks .. 
I see beautiful bodies well toned but no stares .. that's the beauty when we have SWAACH MENTALITY
Hot pool in water park is one place where everyone shares a small plce white or brown skin skimpy clothes .. but no one stares or rapes happen .. check the pic below ..I had spend hours in this place.

.. apart from this at beach ..we see people wearing swim suits and taking sun bath .. if we check the dress in that case there should be more rape cases on beach but its not mentality is clean ..
I would cut short and conclude .. try raising a clean healthy mind whether girls or boys but good Swaach (clean ) mentality .. so future of india is clean and safe .. it will take time but we can do that ..
With Modi as PM of india hope we have clean government and hard laws implemented 
its clean un-corrupted people to rule and its a better place to live.