Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Attention Seeking Disorder

its a very common problem ...and most of the social networking sites are working or making money on these lines of disorder among humans ...
specially females.. every damn pictures ..good bad or ugly is there ..jus for the heck of that attention..N all those road side romeos.. will fill that page with their weird comments.. needless to say that this attention was seeked and it came in so handy..
I had a friend who logged inn after brushing her teeth in the morning... and left at midnight ...whole day those updates and every damn picture ...on face-book
after some time it was surprise to her when one of the guys collected all those pictures compiled and made a video ..putting it on U tube..But I would say you always get back what you sow .. and responsible for your own deeds...
Many pages you can come across where random pictures of these kind of people have been picked up from their profiles and given name to those pages.. irrespective of any ones privacy..But who is responsible ? we ,our self..who post every minor detail and if you happen to look at these pages where random pictures are there ..all vulgar comments ..dirty filthy minds ... can be seen.

it goes hand in hand ..Attention seeking disorder and people who look for this kind of weakness in others.. even if you lock your pictures ..don’t forget there are friends from your own profile who do all this and pass pictures to their friends...
sometimes I feel its like checking your worth in public and their opinions...
the funniest updates you can read ...the dumb excuses you can make ... 
for no reason an ugly picture would be liked or praised...as" OMGD beautiful .."
 ...(all crap)
To me if you ever want to be praised it has to be real no pictures  Face-book or any other site  ..keep your privacy and never indulge into this fake world ...
Self claimed models N divas in abundance on face-book and other sites ..how many are real or beautiful?  .. those who are REAL divas they have only official pages and no real pictures,,, SAD isn't it!!such a contradictory thing..
These attention seekers make these sites successful and through these people then there are other set of  people who make their own business run.. ..its all linked..
do we really need to check our worth in public? we don’t have confidence?

16 comments:

kavita said...

I agree that one needs to be careful on social sites be it a male or a female.

Rahul Bhatia said...

True Harman, One reaps the harvest of what one sows:)

Jack said...

Harman,

A hard hitting but factual post. Hope those who have this trait do realise the hazards.

Take care

Haddock said...

I laughed out loud when I read "OMG beautiful....."
That was so true.
FB is not my cup of tea ....

Bikramjit said...

so very true harman, I think along with attention seeking disorder many also have little faith on themself thats why they put picture in aabundance to show off and make people press that LIKE button ..


Bikram's

Tomz said...

I often envy woman who post such meaningless photographs and get such stupid comments as you mentioned..Because if a man post a very interesting and worthwhile picture it wont get as many comments or likes as the meaningless updates by women get..But of course women also post creative updates..

Uma said...

Some people are by default like that.. revealing their private life in public...

Rachna said...

Very true. Social sites are promoting vulgar show-off and even I wonder sometimes seeing ugly or repetitive pics. What is wrong with people?

harman singh said...

@kavita..
true.. and be more sensible rather then behaving like a teenager,

harman singh said...

@rahul.. very true..
and wht goes around comes around.

harman singh said...

@jack..true!
and stop following wht others do..

harman singh said...

@haddock..
:)
yes its true.. such an ugly picture says ..OMGD ..beautiful"

harman singh said...

@bick ..true..little faith and more show -off!

harman singh said...

@tomz..
hmm
:)
stupid pictures and meaningful updates by women..
lolzzzz

harman singh said...

@UMA..true!
...and thats wht their mission of life is..even some bloggers I wud say ..they keep posting pictures for no reason!I dont think as fashion blog..

harman singh said...

@rachna
people have gone more bOLD and less beautiful..
lol