Sunday, January 29, 2012

Stop Racism!

This happened on TAM airlines.
A 50-something year old white woman arrived at her seat and saw that the passenger next to her was a black man. Visibly furious, she called the air hostess.

"What's the problem, mam?" the hostess asked her
"Can't you see?" the lady said - "I was given a seat next to a black man. I can't sit here next to him. You have to change my seat"

- "Please, calm down, mam" - said the hostess
"Unfortunately, all the seats are occupied, but I'm still going to check if we have any."

The hostess left and returned some minutes later.

"Madam, as I told you, there isn't any empty seat in this class- economy class.
But I spoke to the captain and he confirmed that there isn't any empty seats in the economy class. We only have seats in the first class."

And before the woman said anything, the hostess continued

"Look, it is unusual for our company to allow a passenger from the economy class change to the first class.
However, given the circumstances, the commandant thinks that it would be a scandal to make a passenger travel sat next to an unpleasant person."

And turning to the black man, the hostess said:

"Which means, Sir, if you would be so nice to pack your handbag, we have reserved you a seat in the first class..."

And all the passengers nearby, who were shocked to see the scene started applauding, some standing on their feet."

isn’t it  great??

Tuesday, January 24, 2012


...the reason I am sharing with you all this is to be careful while walking or jogging on side walk or trails as its winter season and sometimes there is fog we don’t know where we are heading to...and when we come to know its too late so my dear friends be very careful as to who is following you or behind you!
my cousin from California a 23 yrs old gurl a law student ..jogging on the trails  listening to her ipod never noticed who kept a track on her schedule or  who was behind her ..then 
one day(jus few weeks back) as she was running across the woods ..sombody came out of the bushes ..had a mask  on his face kicked her down..on grass..and trying to get hold of her she was trying to call police but he kept on kicking her ..then he tried to smash her face in dirt there hittin her hard..she kept on yelling but in vain no body could see ...then somebody across the street ,probably after leaving the kids in school  was closing the garage saw some-thing goin on across the street she shouted"hey whos there ,whts goin on ,hey wait !!..she came running towards there street on the main road...
The guy looking at her ran from the scene..The lady in the neighbourhood picked my cousin who was kinda unconscious ...and took her home ..she called the cops immediately and then my cousin was taken home by them ..who still could not get over the shock as to why it happened and who was that guy?
wht was his intentions?? he probably followed her couple of times but she never noticed busy with ipod songs ...the police said they would try to trace the person...
its scary ,could be very ugly..she was saved nick of time ...but not all of us can be that lucky...
I would highly recommend Gyms in winter as its safe and facility provides everything be safe and be healthy and always look around .. "never be lost in your own world"

Friday, January 20, 2012


This is wht happens when begging runs in the family !!

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

tag time 2012

 Thanks to bikram ...I have been tagged by him ...I think one of my oldest friend on   blog...I remember when I started blogging for fun in 2008 ...before that I maintained a diary..and then blogging world started ..first ones to come on my blog was dharmjit and bikram...
Bikram posted a link to read his blog at that time ..after that I met many bloggers.....But somehow some  got offended with some post which I dint understand till date... people have their own mind sets and blocks which you cannot change ...
now picking up the tag ..I hope I do justice to that!!

 – Your most beautiful post
I remember when I met this lady .. I was numb..thinking about her for hrs how could anybody be so brave yet so loving and calm...she was an inspiration to me to let off go those in misery and suffering,, that’s life..
 it got all the attention that wanted and did full justice!

– Your most popular post
 I was overwhelmed by the response very touching topic it was all of us has to grow old and also go through those same problems...but everyone had their own views which was good to know!

– Your most controversial post
 ... Some people hated for that :) so annoyed ..never knew it would hurt so much ..few of my army friends got annoyed :(posted comments under Anonymous, if you mess with me  dont think putting anonymous comment would help to hide your ids ...I can still see those ids but I never knew I wud start an argument with this post, anyways got resolved with time.

– Your most helpful post
 this was a fun post help me to knew wht should I do when I am back home n people are lured by west!

– A post whose success surprised you
 I was surprised to see the reponse of pictures as I had taken frm my Iphone 4g which I assumed to be very normal..but pictures came out too good

– A post you feel didn’t get the attention it deserved
 This is very popular post thou but dint get that kinda attention from bloggers as always I see random readers coming to my blog goin through post which is on search engine...

– The post that you are most proud of
Being a mom I can never tell anyone not to go for motherhood... it offended some bloggers but I jus cant change others views n their own fundamentals!

I nominate up to 5  bloggers to take part.
1) UMA
congrats  to all the people who have been nominated....those who pick the tag need to nominate at least five more people ..CUZ happiness is all about spreading around and not keeping it to yourself.

Saturday, January 14, 2012

bride or bribe?


...Dowry is a social stigma,it  leads to many other problems... female infanticides is one among them ...
why blame anyone..we are the people who make this and later repent on mistakes.
people say with confidence ..nowadays things have changed and nobody asks for dowry N people are educated and know their options But  let me tell you we pretend to be blind and want to see jus what we like even after all that happenings around us..
Indian marriages are a million dollar wedding at least...there are no ends of show-offs and attitudes ... A wedding in India which happened to be in Times Of India newspaper..created lot of noise back home...since I am frm ludhiana punjab.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012


...its was one of those afternoons (holidays)..n I was at cousin from Canada was at home too for vacation.
I got a call ...
Me :hello
him:is it Herman?
Me:(I thought of those tel -marketing people ,they suck) before I could say she is not at home...
him: I am calling from treasury department and wanted to talk to it her?
Me: yes go ahead this is Harman.
him: I wanted to let you know that you have been selected for $ 5,999from US treasury department in one of our lucky draws granted by President Obama for Indian Americans who have no fault in their credit history and have been a good tax payer all through these years.This proves them to be good citizens.
Me (feeling so proud of myself at this hour)
I asked ... okay... thanks for letting me know so whats the procedure so  is it check or cash?
Him: you have to take a pledge first will not use use this money for any illegal means  no drugs or any illegal arms or ammunition's
ME: I will use this money jus n jus for my personal use only and not for any illegal purpose.
Him: so gimme your cell number!
Him: lady you will go to western union jus now and show your US ID and other papers required to collect the cash ,so to walk you through the procedure I need to talk to you through your cell when you are there.
ME: ohk fine ,but whats your name and number  your id I need to know before goin ahead so that I know whom I am talking to..
Him:My name is Thomas James ..US id blah blah blah :)
I looked at the clock it was 3pm I had to go to the salon had an appointment but so stuck here...anyways lets get this money first ..I thought..
Him: so as you reach there call me and I will tell you what to do and how to get the cash.
ME:do I need to pay anything upfront?
Him:yes $300 and that will be refunded immediately ..when you get cash.
ME: I thought why take money upfront if you give me back immediately? whts the purpose of paying that money upfront? but said nothing to him.
..I kicked my cousin s butt .. who was smiling at me and told ..time to partyyyyyyyyy
But lets call hubby dear and give him the news too before we go to western union..
 called hubby at work...
Hubby :yaa say..
me: we have a cash from US treasury granted by Obama for paying taxes and having no fault in credit history its a lucky draw..and my name is there.. among Indian Americans...I got an official call ..
hubby : I could hear him laughing ... ok tell me ..why do you get these kinds of calls only ..why not me?
Me:okay I don't know but I have to go to western union and collect  cash..
Him.. that guy whosoever he is ..give me his number he is trying to con you..
and Obama is not our MAMA (moms brother) to distribute cash like that ... this guy will extract money from you and nothing in return...
Me: but I have his id and phone number and official details he gave it to me...jus note it down ..its REAL.
Him : give me few minutes and I will take out all the details and let you know..

In between the same guy Thomas James was calling me I could see his id on my land-line,I dint answer the call...

my hubby called me on my cell and told me there are many cases reported this month of this spam don't answer anyone and don't go anywhere.
..and let me talk to him when I come home.

feeling so sad n bad lost all money :)) ...rightly judged by hubby why are these fake calls for me only? 
But Thank God I am saved!

( let me tell you most of the fake callers ask for you bank details n a/c numbers but in this case it sounded real ..could not be mistaken as all official ids were given extension number with pledge and background noise which sounded like office..and when I called back it had recording officially made to sound real..the only thing which made me surprised was$300 ;)

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Green Card.

Green Card ..its actually a trump card ( a wining ticket)for anyone desperate to settle in  US..
People  stoop low to get permanent residency in US as Green card solves all immigration problems..
There are contract marriages,marriage for convenience and many kinds of frauds .. which is SICK..
People my whole idea of this post is jus to let you know never get into any kind of trap Cuz most of the boys n girls look of citizens in US to get married..the reason behind for those proposals are jus n jus to get immigration n settle here ...all these are fraud marriages.
Girls or Boys coming from India to get married here in US please be sure you know the party well and has some relatives here who are ready to help you during time of need otherwise its mental trauma.

Most of our family is in US and most of the kids are married here too ...But its very unfortunate that people here on matrimonial sites and even otherwise cheated us for green card jus to get the status..its hard to find out or know but when you actually come to know its too late...
its not only a trauma but getting into legal hassle and spending your time and money in the court.
We were again in a trap but came to know this time...the guy we found for our cousin was a physician, who was more then willing to get married but actually jus looking for status as he had immigration problems and this would be jus for green card!
how we came to know is a long story ...but to cut short he was too eager and desperate to get married within two months ...Cuz he would be kicked out of the country and then there were many other lies which we found out later.
*people getting their kids married in US specially girls ..make sure you know the family well so that you shouldn't be surprised later to know that person is already married who is supposedly a groom!
* don't trust matrimonial sites ... most of the information is all lie unless you know somebody personally in -between and trust him.
* there are fair chances of divorcees or widower not disclosed so jus keep a check on the age and reason for delay in marriage...
*A very good looking person on matrimonial site.. and not married ?? check and don’t be fooled by attributes.
* Just check the Visa with lawyer to ensure the status so that there are no confusions.
* all references to be checked (work place , company , salary) to see how much truth is there...even if that person gets offended..

...its sad ..but true,
Green card can make anybody greedy and play with your emotions!

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Happy New year..2012

happy new year.. to all my friends and bloggers!
 Hope all of you have a blessed year.. happiness and prosperity in family and many more horizons to cover!
...every year a great promise to our-self..  keeping bars high ,new resolutions and new determination striving towards our goal.. crossing the hurdles...
..days into months n months into years ..we are in 2012!
Great !
I usually don’t make any resolutions ... jus take life as it comes!
but making "our-self optimistic person and not to indulge in any arguments whatsoever that’s my principle:)
... kyon ke
" Duniya chal nahi sakti banawati asoolon se"
"khusboo aah nahi sakti kagaz ke phoolon se"
so its truth n jus truth that wins!!!

...God bless you all and have a wonderful month of January its official winters so keep yourself warm and spread this warmth of love to others too :)