Wednesday, September 21, 2011

God makes mistakes?

 
When we make mistakes they call it evil. When God makes mistakes they call it Nature! 
I had always pondered over this thought and kept a very close look on when God makes Mistakes!
He, the Almighty ..creator of the universes who loves all ...can he do that..??
YES HE DOES...But to rectify the error..he helps us with strength and vigour hope and help..
..now how it happens..
I have seen many cases ,many... Accidents where the family suffers due to death of a main earning person of the family... wife is young ...kids are small ...and nothing saved for future...
then other cases ...where a natural calamity occurs and everything was destroyed..now its a suffering .......period
A bed ridden person... and family suffering from long medical bills and then no money..and  ultimately...ends comes one final day..
all these people survive ... and some are very successful after long battle ..
people say...its all scripted by him and story moves as he wants it...But I have always noticed there is a bright Rainbow after that whole misery and suffering..
Today if we pick the most successful people  in or around us... they had ...all kinds of problems and then ...after that it was only success and more success...it starts from a problem and then success all the way...
 ...sometimes I am surprised ..as  to why this happened later...
I will narrate you a story of some family friends who are very close to us..
A family of two sons ...and they got married...Brought inn two wonderful girls as their daughter -in laws..no personal problems... they had their own business of Iron N steel mill... A happy family..BUT after some time..the Business started declining... and as a result it  came to an Actual stop.. huge losses and then...the younger son decided to go for job.. But the older one went into depression... and the depression was so Acute... that it led to Mental asylum ...when ..the older son came home from hospital...he was bed ridden for many yrs.. the whole family faced ... problems.. financially.. kids grew up deprived of many things.. but couldn't see dad ..as same happy person ever...
One day we got news From India...that same older Son who was sick committed Suicide and his body was  not found...later we came to know it was found   mutilated condition in water... it was case of suicide..
...Any ways..the mental trauma and problems added... kids were going to college now... ..but surprisingly they came up with bright colours.. both of them did good in studies... and were professional now by help of grand parents...(it was a joint family)
the kids Changed the line of business  and sold the company ...started a new business ..which flourished ..and one of the son Got married to a physician..other one got married to another professional... they had never seen so much happiness in life as they were experiencing now... 
I met them in India few yrs back and was surprised ..as why this decision was not taken to change the business ..before ,and start something different..this could have been done before too?? 
Was this a mistake and rectified in such a beautiful way... isn't he Great??
if he does something wrong...Don't blame..there might be another good thing coming up...go for the commandments...try decoding the messages... I know its hard..But then the rainbow is always  after storm!

34 comments:

kanthi said...

Wow..a ray of Hope to those who are suffering both mentally and physically..love your blog,so smooth with soothing words..

IRFANUDDIN said...

you are right "har andheri raat ke baad subah ujala lekar aati hai"....

Lovely post.

kavita said...

Nice post .During tough times i always keep in my mind this line -
God gave burdens, also shoulders. ~Yiddish Proverb.

Kunwar Kusumesh said...

You have wonderfully summarized the entire story by quoting "rainbow is always after storm".
It is very true.

ViJ@Y said...

Nice blog you have.

Landed on your blog through abhilash's blog link.


Nice work Keep Going
:)

Renu said...

I dont think that god ever makes mistakes, its always our karma, today's karma becomes tomorrow's destiny, we always get what we sow, and his accounts are better than any CA, its debited and credited very accurately.

Rachna said...

I actually am more of an atheist now. I just cannot stomach the inequality around me and still keep believing that there is a God. I do respect the faith others have.

Bikramjit said...

BEAUTIFUL .. I loved the message in the post .. yes God does help as they say one door closes TWO open .. its up to us to look at them .. GOd cant make us do it for us ..

He has shown the way its upto us humans to takre a route and work hard ..

Sad story ended up so happily ...

Thank you for sharing

Bikram's

Muhammad Israr said...

yes...we humans are by nature very impatient and complaining... God gives us the miseries so much as we can bear... He give wealth and happiness to test us and then He takes everything and test us...
liked it so much... thanks for sharing :)

Uma said...

losing a family member is not easy anyday...

Mishi said...

Beautifully Captured harman..Not many People can dare to ask this question and then answer it like this..

and yes you are right...It does happen like that..God puts us in troubled water to check our strength and then make us stronger ...what appears drastic to us does has bright outcomes after a while..and yes HE knows Best and We dont know anything:-)

Thankz for your concern..em fine alhumdulilaha..been busy:-)

A said...

Very good story. Change is constant in life. Bad times don't last so as good times. Destiny and luck play very important role.

Pythoroshan said...

thanks for this...it comes at a difficult time personally.. good too read ...atleast hope there is a rainbow.

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

After a long time I met with a post which touched my heart. God test everyone. Life is to defeat God. If you succeed in doing this, God sends you in heaven. and if u can,t u r sent to hell. So its on you how you take life as.

Acc to me, nothing is scripted. God gave us brain and he left it on us how we use it.

zeenusingh said...

harman..very well written post.
God bless you.

Harman said...

@kanthi...thanks ..
for your lovely comment.

Harman said...

@irfan..
thanks..hope everybody ..gets help in troubled times.

Harman said...

@kavita..
very true..to every word..

Harman said...

kunwar kusumesh.
thanks..
yaa the story I have narrated in my blog...are about our family friends ...a big tragedy that happened ...But ultimately they came out as winner.

The Beautifier said...

Very nice post! Life keeps teaching us endless hard lessons and test us at differentlevels....those who are willing to go through it and learn something out of it would come out as winners in the end and those who don't will have to perish....

Harman said...

Vijay..thanks..
I hopped through your blog found it interesting.
:)

Harman said...

@Renu..
Maybe..its different in terms..
but A will has to be there.. to bounce back and during troubled times its God and his angels are there for help.

Harman said...

@rachna..
True..
but inequality is there to show and prove that wherever we are we should be happy and not complaint ..look around and feel.. we are blessed ones.

Harman said...

@bick..
very well said..nothing better to explain.

Harman said...

@muhammed..
true..
very well said!
its always a test..
stay blessed.

Harman said...

@UMA..
true..I agree.

Harman said...

@mishi..
thanks for your lovely comment as always..
Dil Se..
very well said!
God bless!

Harman said...

@A...
yep..I agree..very well said.

Harman said...

@pythoroshan..
Hope ..it turns out well
our best wishes...
:)

Harman said...

@Zee..
thanks..
love ya..

Harman said...

@abhilash..
thanks..
may be or may be not..its all based on our thinking.
God bless...hope every where there is happiness and prosperity.

Harman said...

@beautifier..
lovely words..
so accurate..so true..
thanks for the lovely comment.

Jack said...

Harman,

No matter what we do everything has to happen when it is time for it to happen. We need to face life as it comes.

Take care

Haddock said...

That story of the brothers made me think and I think there are ups and downs in everybody's lives, some severe and some not so severe, but its how you out of those crests and falls makes you a tough and stable person.
I think those kids saw the downs in the family and knew the meaning of life and that's why they can withstand anything now.