Friday, February 4, 2011

intimacy in public places...

standing in an elevator...It was kinda so embarrassing...seeing two adults in intimate positions..I had no place to look....the damn thing was moving so slow..I wish I could break the door and get off the place....It was not only me ..every other person was looking here and there..
I mean why do all that in public places,its act of indecency..and shit for others..Mall is a very common site where most of the couples indulge in their fiery acts..basically its a free SHOW for others...
we were on vacation to Canada..on our way ,the car ahead of us moved abruptly ....my husband tried to control the wheel and with a result we had to change the lane..as we moved ahead..we saw a smooching scene while driving....why so much love while driving? that also at cost of your life......
....holding hands is no big deal but Yet a line needs to be drawn between decency and vulgarity.One may wonder at the motivations that make people display intimacies in public. It could be a simple show off or reassurance about the dedication to the lover. More practical reasons could be lack of places to have some exotic intimate moments. Despite the fact that the couple concerned may be truly devoted to each other, right or wrong has always been decided by the society at large and not by individuals.
""Love is expressed better in words and gestures in private instead of public show out." .......'

17 comments:

AS said...

very true. I agree with you. In India its much more decent. Not sure about the other places.

soorya said...

me share the same thoughts here..

♥LOVE2COOK♥ said...

I hate these kinda people! Real sore to the eye! ;)

A said...

More common in Europe. It is becoming common in India too. For some people showing love in public is cool

Rolling Stone said...

Oh its like snow, not so common here in India but yes, its abundantly available in US,
....although its catching up in metro cities..but truly speaking I find it very gross and people find obscenity as a fashion these days..pity folks.

A S said...

hii
ya it looks really cheap, i agree

such people should get hotel; rooms booked instead ;D

Uma said...

some are sadly mistaken that public display of intimacy makes them look very trendy and modern.. rather it looks unpleasant..

it has started in india too.. result of imitating western culture...

Harman said...

....@AS...may be..I have visited india for for last five yrs...but the media shows a different story,,how westernized culture is in india!

@Soorya...yes..I think all indians will agree..its not part of our culture!

@love 2 cook...yes..Dear..NUTS!!
:)

@A..seems like you also had seen..this weird stuff :(
these are very popular scenes in Canada downtown also...specially among indian community!

@Rolling stone..It is Gross...indecent and shows vulgarity..

@AS..maybe...but its very common in US and European countries!

@UMA..yes I agree,,,its a show of love or display of love in a gross way...
India wants to be in main stream of everything from US..good bad or ugly....its pathetic!!

IRFANUDDIN said...

very true... some times its so embarrassing when we are with our kids out there.....
Regards,
irfan

Harman said...

@Irfan..its always embarrassing to see any kind of vulgarity...I don't understand people ..and their display of love..
its stupid!

Uncommon Sense said...

may be a public display gets them excited..

Thinking said...

hmm....very true.

They should consider..children at least...

Haddock said...

I think it changes from place to place.
Holding hands is fine, but is it fine at certain places.... for example, go down to south India and try holding hands....even if you are married....
In the buses they have Ladies and gents seats.
Try siiting in the wrong seat and see what happens...

Harman said...

@uncommon sense...it should be opposite ...COZ under a public eye one is more conscious!

@thinking..Yes..I agree sweets :)

@Haddock...what happens?
good or bad???

tanvii.com said...

I knw what you mean! I get extremely uncomfortable seeing people in such 'situations'

STRANGER said...

Uncivilized people.

dr.antony said...

It is not love that you saw.Just lust.