Thursday, January 6, 2011

Beauty Comes with responsibilty!!

..When God created women it was considered as most beautiful thing on earth ,irrespective of its color ,class or creed..
 
Beauty is a gift, bestowed at random on an unsuspecting individual, usually at birth. But unlike those other gifts also allotted at birth: talent, strength, wit or intelligence --which you have to cultivate to fully develop before you reap rewards-- beauty is instant...
A face in a crowd or center of attraction are few words given which makes every head turn...I am talking about  beautiful women.."beauty Comes with responsibility"...Usually at young age ,at teenage the scenario is different ,there are many temptations and lot of fan following ..
the ditch  is also very close..everything is sparkling but not gold...many a times girls fail to understand and get lured by money or looks and get into  deep down trouble called abyss..many cases and hundred of examples where beauty became a curse cause it was difficult to handle so much fame..
whether it was beauty queen madhubala..(bollywood) or Marilyn Monroe(Hollywood)these are example of celebrities but talking in general...Its how responsibly and maturely one handles the friendships and affairs and don't go overboard....but ..at that age one fails to understand where heart governs the brain and many a times good looking girls they never  settle properly one or the other problem keeps coming up..I wouldn't discuss since this is personal but few girls in our family and between friends had same problems ..today when I see them its SAD!! so beautiful but things didn't work as wanted...who's fault it is?  our own because parents try to teach or advice but "isq ka bhoot sawar hotah hai"(crazy for love )Responsibility comes with age and maturity but then the time is lost and cannot be found...beauty come once ..its like a sunshine ..but with a time and dawn its over..left with its imprints and stories..
Indian girls in US ..most of the time I see parents are worried and want to send them back home for higher studies so that they are not into that open culture or freedom of right..but I would say if you cant take care of your daughter who else will take care?the scene is same every where India or US, culture and rights are known ..we have to educate the kids ..girls usually want to move out where they get independence and no restrictions ,so they look for apartments and stay alone or share it with friends..which is kind of scary too cause my unknown murders have been lately seen...its like love triangles..and whatnot!!
Every girl in this age thinks herself to be Hollywood or Bollywood star..not knowing this is the time to make right decisions of life to reap a rich fruit later  whether it studies ,any professional degree or partner for life.Beauty is appreciated but not forever..age shows up But to be witty or intelligent goes forever...
so Beauty comes with responsibility
some quotes!
1)"Beauty is the first present ,nature gives to women and the first it takes away"
2) "It is good that the young are beautiful;it is the only advantage they have."
 3)"Beauty is a short-lived tyranny".

9 comments:

A said...

An excellent post.Good advice

STRANGER said...

God has filled mother, sister, wife or any other lady with the milk of human kindness and that makes a woman most beautiful in the world and it lasts forever.

I am a man but I admit, men don’t have this quality.

Bikramjit said...

well they do say one shud not be boastful of the beauty cause its the hard truth that it will go away ..

and yes one shud be responsible and yes parents need to teach
cause i have a similar problem with a few in family who say we are good looking so want this and that which is absurd...

the face in crowd and head turner is for a few days.. a new one comes every day ...

its also a fact that a beautiful girls do have a big nose too:) as they say

KHUDA JAB HUSAN DETA HAI TO NAZAKHAT AA HI JAATI HAI :)

totally agree with what you say .. i gues the media and all the environment is a big influence tooo ...

Bikram's

Rolling Stone said...

great blog...
and a good food for thought for the parents of damsels...
your writes really well.

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Uma said...

very nice post!

Harman said...

@A,,thanks

@stranger..yes..I agree..

@bikram...KHUDA JAB HUSAN DETA HAI TO NAZAKHAT AA HI JAATI HAI..
ha haaa...
but seriously..if not handled properly is pit hole!!

@rollingstone..thanks..yes buddy I am following :)

@UMA..thanks sweety..love ya

The Generalist said...

its wrong to say that beauty doesnt need work,, people work a lot towards maintaing their beauty.. every talent needs works and so does beauty

dr.antony said...

Being beautiful is good.The truth is good looking women can get any thing done so easily.
But being obsessed with the idea of being beautiful is despicable.Some women spend endless times at the mirror and finally get frustrated at the vanishing beauty.One cannot fight age and has to learn to gracefully accept it.
Beauty can become a curse too.I know some women who have told me so.Men queue after them and make their lives miserable.
It is a balancing act of beauty with brains,that can win.

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

I totally agree mam...