Saturday, December 18, 2010

Human nature...

 

..".there is a great deal of human nature in people"...
every person is different and ways of thinking is different...negative or positive thoughts are part of human system which is beyond control....wisdom comes with age....
During our childhood we receive instruction on what is expected behavior and what is unacceptable behavior. And those behaviors are weather reinforced or punished. Therefore if one does bad, one is prohibited on some sort of pleasure or inflicted with pain; and in the opposite, if one does good, one is to be compensated with an object or an act that would have a pleasant effect on us.
then comes religion..with expected behavior reinforcing with even bigger promise of gratification called "Heaven"
and the unaccepted is punished with eternal distress called hell...
then.. examples are given by a collective past where similar things are done and the results were disastrous...
Individuals all over the world are known by there behavior and acts..Good or bad..the Good are embraced but the bad are often rejected...People blow out the situation and create a trouble for others ..its humane..but not understood...
Two categories of people are here..
Complaining..
these are those kind ,no matter how good things are they will keep complaining  to friends, relatives ,parents ..and above all the"Almighty"..they are never happy..they have all those negative vibes coming out...worrying for unseen future ..not believing others are part of the nature and they think  nothing is wrong in that ... its hard to convince them as they have a negative answer ready to every small reason...
the word of mouth spreads often and rejection is faced by them.
Acceptance..
there are others..who accept and try to learn keeping in mind the prior mistakes,they grow as they learn..often these kind of people are seen with no fuss and total acceptance..they speak less observe more and try to understand the situation before blowing out of proportion ..their temper is always in control...they are  non- complaining types and keeping away from any unhealthy kind of argument...they also have many behavioral flaws but the good qualities hides all..


The individuals with the most acceptances are expected to become leaders, while all rejected individuals are to be separated from the group and constitute rebel minorities with similar organizational type.
 Common  reasons...
hatred
desperation
envy
greed
selfishness
...many more....
Millions of crimes are done everyday..its like world is full of culprits and Demons,,no end .
.recently a baby girl Just two years of age was picked and taken on a secluded place ..trying to be molested..the guy was caught and kid was taken..its holiday season sometimes parents ignore kids thinking its safe..but these vicious people are everywhere...parents be careful, take care of children they are precious!!
this news was was spread everywhere.. where is Humanity going?...
why create a trouble in the society..if that's the case ..go to some brothel and they will do you a favor for your desperation that is seen publicly.....these kind of people are nothing but loosers..and trouble creators in the society...
"God..where is humanity and humility..the beautiful world created by you has changed ever since your angels left".....

(dekh teri duniya ki halat kya hogyi Bhagwan ke kitna badal gaya insaan)

12 comments:

AS said...

A well put concise thoughts on the topic. The reward and punishment procedure adopted all the way in life. This confirms the game theory, by which one can approximate the behavior of a person.
If the world could be spared from these inhuman tendencies of the fragile human brain, the world would be a better place to live in.
Complaining and acceptance are a part of life. Its a gradual learning process, some mature early some take time. But yes in the end, the people who accept reality and move ahead are the winners in the game of life. (its easy to say .. some times i too complain a lot)

Raj - Only name sake !! said...

Very very well said!!

I loved the post :)

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Bikramjit said...

Lovely post

But i have my thoughts which may be a tangent from the post :)

Two categories you said
COMPALAINING and ACCEPTANCE types to me Both are so wrong ..

Its not good to keep complaining and complaining .. one should speak out for sure ..

Acceptance :- is basically the same I feel if you let the bad do BAD and jsut accept it then you are just as bad ... :)

I hope what i wrote does make sense ...

Harman said...

@Bikram..to speak about to talk about an issue is nothing wrong we all are blogging as a matter of fact for certain problems in the society..BUT
COMPLAINs
unnecessarily or unable to bear the situation in nothin ..jus a nature..like.. what if it snows a lot and I am not able to reach at work on time..?? I have an headache..what if its takes me to emergency?
issues of all kind..unseen future..useless topics..cribbing for no reason..
the whole topic is on positive approach for a better living!!
Acceptance..
don't take bulls shits but try to handle the situation keeping your temper in control..
Example..An old guy is passing lewd remarks on a teenager..
rather then hitting the guy and getting behind bars yourself..help the girl and call the cops..
Like a phrase"I may not be always right, but I am never wrong"a win win situation..body and mind in control
accepting the fact and finding the reasons of mistakes keeping ego aside...in where we all lack somewhere or the other!!

JAGDISH BALI said...

With good will exist bad for always. Humane and inhumane will go side by side. Now it depends on human discretion which way to tread.

The Beautifier said...

Well said! The 'Sath yug' era is well over and the 'kal yug' is seen to be dominating the human's mind and soul. Its very sad actually! Compassion and Humility is greatly needed in the social environment to improve the quality of human life!

Uma said...

very well written.. both good and bad exist.. thats part of life...

A said...

Very good post Harman. Speechless I am now.

dr.antony said...

For an argument, once I justified the existence of prostitution.Haven't you got a valid reason now?

Harman said...

@DR Anthoy..Personally ..about this I would never discuss..its gives me a sick feeling of these brothels and sluts....
..girls who r forced into this business..I pity!!!

AbhiLaSH RuHeLa said...

Wow. I have no words to explain the greatness of this post. wonderful.