Tuesday, September 14, 2010

I Will Miss him!!

My hubby is all set to move to Canada for three months,to support a new launch...
Working as an Engineer with his team...they notified him saying, you have to leave on Monday ..I was little upset since its gonna be too long this time though mom n dad are here with me...he usually goes for a week ..within US but this is another country...
A very pleasant person,when he saw me upset ...said I am not goin to Iraq for war..its the company that needs help from us and they are paying an incentive for that!!!
To me ..money doesn't matter ..if you have to leave your dear ones...but he is so dedicated to his work that he did not refuse looking at situation company is passing through ...he could have refused or raised his demands ...I prayed ..last night to get a solution out ..of this problem....
He heard my prayer coincidentally ..and immediately told God ..not to answer her prayer ...I laughed looking at him...who usually doesn't pray or performs any rituals like me...

Why men are made like that?

14 comments:

dialoguewithyou said...

Aww..what a sweet post :)
I can totally understand your situation, but sometimes we are forced to choose work over the desire to not leave your dear ones for this long :(
I hope the company troubles resolve soon :)
Thank you for dropping by my blog and showing me way to your cool blog :D

Cheers!!

kavita said...

He must be very important for the company-it is relying on him for this project.A thing certainly to be proud of.Three months is a long time and both of you are going to miss each other .Part of job.Glad that you have your parents there and of course your blogger friends here .
Don't worry ,be happy !(may be you can visit Canada once with your parents n kids).

Dharmjit said...

this is called life. One has to take care of all the things and also missing someone had its own fun

Bikramjit said...

awwwwwwwwwwww so saaaad :) HArman I know money is not everything but in these times, the recession and all .. I think Its ok to compromise and we have to give up or sacrifise for the bigger picture..

Canada is not that far, how long is the flight haan.. hey you can go for long weekends ..

and imagine what all you can get up to now .. when he is away wink wink wink he he heheeheh:)

ok bad joke but i am sure u smiled he he he .. Not to worry just 3 months they will vanish like thisssssssssssssssssss :)

Uma said...

its sad.. but Harman why dont u and kids join him? would be a good change for you.. i guess kids school would be an issue..

alphabetworld said...

awww...i can understand. i've never been away from my hubby for even a single day after marriage ;) thts a deal we have ;)

Harman said...

@bikram...A bad joke...
I guess my life revolves around my hubby and family...
Friends after...that...
Canada border is 25 mins from us ..and Toronto is like four hours and Bradford five hrs drive...
ya long weekends I can drive ...

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Bikramjit said...

Sorry about that My bad... did not mean to hurt or say in a wrong way .. Sorry

Nilu said...

Went through a lot of your posts...quite enjoyed reading them. Getting to know you a little better.

Keep writing!

Harman said...

@Dialoguewithyou..yes thanks..I appreciate your wonderful thought here as a comment!

Kavita..thanks ..yes..I definitely have to get into different routine..life is gonna be tough!

@Dharamjit
..ya..less of fun and more of responsibility for me!

@UMA..its not possible for me to go with him..though they are providing him a Suite for family..but I have work here and kids are goin to school..some projects I have to handle..I wish cud do that!

@albhabet..Yes..same here...I been married and never left him....like that ...the reason I never married a guy from Defence..as I had seen my Dad..goin for months of Exercise or emergencies..and mom being alone with us.

@bikram..its ok Buddy..no need to say sorry..

@Nilu..thanks dear..I am honored!
I like your blog too..

Zeenu said...

you can call me ,if need help or anything.

A said...

Men appear pretend to be practical. He probably does not want to go either but he may not have a choice. I travel a bit for my job and as soon as I leave home, I feel sad. But I went for 3 months - at the most for a week. When I come back home, I feel so goood.

Raj - Only name sake !! said...

A very sweet post!!